Skewed View or True Love? - Encouragement for Today - February 14, 2019

Peace and perspective from God's timeless truths. [View this email in your browser]( Encouragement for Today --------------------------------------------------------------- [Karen Ehman] February 14, 2019 Skewed View or True Love? [KAREN EHMAN]( “Love … bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” [1 Corinthians 13:6]( 7b (CSB) In the era of Facebook and Instagram, there’s so much pressure when it comes to pulling out all the stops while popping the question. Just do a quick search online for the most romantic proposals. Or the most creative proposals. Or even those where the bride is surprised by a flash mob, as hundreds of people sing in harmony while also performing elaborate choreography. Oh, and it’s all conveniently captured from four different camera angles and spliced together in a film that racks up millions of views and goes viral! Although I’m glad my husband and I got engaged without any pressure from social media, I don’t knock a modern-day, pull-out-all-the-stops creative proposal. They are undoubtedly entertaining to watch. And they certainly show a guy’s willingness to put time into something that will speak love to his lady. But all of this “high bar” setting can slowly start to set up a false notion of what romance is. So can elaborate weddings and over-the-top honeymoons. Sometimes we spend a massive amount of time staging and planning our weddings and very little time gearing up for marriage, sincerely trying to discern what real romance and true love actually are. True love isn’t a man who will race through the rain down a crowded city street to passionately embrace his wife, beseeching her to return after a lovers’ quarrel. Real romance doesn’t come with a hefty price tag or show its affections by emptying a bank account — or worse, by going into deep debt — in order to prove its sincerity. Undying devotion isn’t flashy, wanting others outside of your marriage to cheer and applaud your showy efforts. Authentic love isn’t proven by dramatic gestures, expensive rings or attention-getting tactics. Not at all. So, what is it then? Today’s key passage, [1 Corinthians 13:6-7]( gives us some insight. It doesn’t claim that love is showy, but steady. It describes true love — the kind which comes from God and is in turn shown to others — by asserting that love “… bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” A peek at the Greek meaning of the four verbs used in this passage offers us a deeper understanding of true love. Bear: to properly place under a protective covering Believe: to be utterly persuaded to be true Hope: to actively wait for God’s fulfillment Endure: to stand your ground, bearing up against hardship and ultimately persevering In essence, true love sticks around for the not-so-romantic, messy and mundane parts of married life. It protects the relationship by continuing to believe in God’s faithfulness, actively awaiting God’s fulfillment of His promises and standing firm in order to persevere. So maybe, true love looks more like this: It’s the steadfast presence of your lover, the willingness to stick it out when things get rocky. It demonstrates love when no one else is looking. True love is wholly committed, costing time and effort. It gives with no expectation of recognition or return. [Continue reading...]( [Learn more about RevenueStripe...]( [Read about Salem Web Network]( | [Subscription Preferences]( | [Unsubscribe]( --------------------------------------------------------------- © 2019 Salem Web Network. All rights reserved. 111 Virginia Street, Suite 500, Richmond, VA 23219. This email is never sent unsolicited. You are receiving this email because your email address, {EMAIL}, is signed up to receive newsletters, updates, and special offers from Encouragement for Today. [Link](