I walked into my kitchen and met Adam Cohen.
[READER]( The Daily Reader One day, years ago, I walked into my kitchen and met Adam Cohen, a lanky young man, sitting at the kitchen table. Adam was my youngest daughterâs high school sweetheart. This was what you might call his âmeet the parentsâ moment. In such moments there are basically two phases of life. In one, youâre the kid at the kitchen table meeting the âold man.â And in the other, you are that old man meeting the kid. Iâve lived long enough to have played both roles at one time or another. And I can tell you from experienceâitâs a little awkward from both perspectives. But Iâve got no complaints about Adam. He was polite and friendly. Very smart. Loved sports: the Cubs and Bulls. And hip-hopâknew the lyrics to so many songs by heart. One time I came into the kitchen as he was reciting some to my daughter and her friends. He stopped when he saw meâa little embarrassed. He was shy like that. He was quick to help my wife, if she needed to get something off the top shelf. Those long arms came in handy. Plus, he and my daughter had a lot of fun together. So, yeah, I lucked out when he came into our lives. In time, my wife and I met Adamâs family. His parents (Michael and Lisa) and his sisters (Sarah and Adina). Sort of blew my mind when I met them. I come from a family of fightersâred in tooth and clawâwho were generally at each other's throats. But the Cohens were sweet and loving and supportive of one another. Lisa, Sarah, and Adina had beautiful voices. Hang around long enough and at some point the Cohens might start singing a song. Itâs nice to know good people actually exist, even in a world with so much cruelty. Adam and my daughter broke up soon after high school. You know how it isâkids go their own way. From time to time, Iâd hear updates about Adam. He went to college at Tulaneâin New Orleans. Joined the Peace Corps and went to Togoâin western Africa. Studied journalism at Medillâin Evanston. Moved to Washington to work as a science writer. And then to Tel Aviv, where he worked as a content writer for a web development company. Along the way he learned French and Hebrew and Spanish and Kebu, a language in Togo. He was a real man of the world. His life was a journeyâwho knows where it would take him next. As you might suspect, this story does not have a happy ending. On June 14, Adam died in his sleep of natural causes. Just a couple of months shy of his 30th birthday. Last week there was a funeral at Anshe Emet Synagogue. Must have been over 200 people in the sanctuary, including kids, now grown up, I hadnât seen in years. His parents and sisters and cousins and friends gave testimonials. And they played a video of Lisa and Sarah and Adina singing â[Lecha Dodi]( a lovely Hebrew hymn, as Adam accompanied them on the guitar. For a moment, it was like Iâd gone back in time. Rest in peace, Adamâthe lanky young man at the kitchen table, whose journey through life ended way too soon.
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