These 3 Zodiac Signs Are The Best At Setting Boundaries

Plus, 8 quiet sex positions for when you want to be sneaky. Dec. 30 2022 [Bustle logo](%2F%2Fbustle.com%2F%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/S5KmT-kL_Oz9GKzZoMWZ0xxJl-8=302) [alt_text](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Fi-hate-my-face%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/pvxCTSRBNazixqQb9gHUTEG0jV4=302) [I Hate My Face, But I'm Reclaiming The Word "Ugly"](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Fi-hate-my-face%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/vCn-7BCSDhTAkDrewWi4zUwNGWM=302) Actor and comedian [Esther Povitsky](%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Festhermonster%2F%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/ovnMDyjALKXOVbdrIQKLpSIv3gM=302) unpacks what it's like dealing with a face you don't love. "I wish I could live in a fantasy world where your social media cachet and physical appearance don’t matter. But they do. Somewhere deep down in the Oprah-est part of my brain, I know that overthinking my own looks is worse than being ugly. Unfortunately, we’re surrounded by reflective surfaces. Sometimes I look at my face and I'm just like, 'What even is that? No! Eww. Please let that not be mine.' Other times I see hideous details with perfect clarity." [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Fi-hate-my-face%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/j_wbcDEA0HQYMw3CY9W2uewYkHw=302) The Latest ASTROLOGY [These 3 Zodiac Signs Are The Best At Setting Boundaries](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Fzodiac-signs-set-boundaries-well%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/UYwkSQdltTP-ed4GyBUvxs-tYiw=302) If you’re the type who can speak up for yourself even when it’s difficult, chances are you’re one of the mature zodiac signs who are the best at setting boundaries. [Desiree Roby Antila](%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fsimplysunsigns%2F%3Fhl=en%26utm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/l8H-aX9o1OwAW24R4qJ8PFNggUU=302), astrologer and author of [Sun Signs in Love](%2F%2Fsimplysunsigns.com%2Fsun-signs-in-love%2F%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/hl42X0YEO4CoT-UqDh1m0FgMZZA=302), tells Bustle that these specific signs “ are extremely consistent people in that they conserve their energy usage. They are also incredibly protective and create boundaries for self-preservation.” [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Fzodiac-signs-set-boundaries-well%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/093KMp-eJ2x0T_N5RHOwiXQXjU0=302) SEX & DATING [8 Quiet Sex Positions To Try When You're Being Sneaky](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2F144919-6-quiet-hot-sex-positions-for-stealth-sex%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/g0tIQsJALphcgV6XhgDVVMCsOnI=302) When you're cohabitating with other people, there will be times when you're in a frisky mood but don’t exactly have all [the privacy you’d like](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Farticles%2F97481-having-sex-at-home-without-your-parents-knowing-in-6-privacy-boosting-steps%3Futm_campaign=57852%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/010001856597d59b-95e900c0-eeb2-4506-a3db-e53a22331929-000000/cOSHQETZ1i4oSub5tglU-To_xOg=302). But what if you were told that you don’t actually have to wait until everyone else is gone in order to get it on? It’s true. And sex therapist Vanessa Marin is here to reveal the best quiet and hot sex positions for stealthy sex. 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