14 Spicy Bralette Outfits For Vaxxed Girl Summer, Round 2

Plus, some genius advice for boosting your dating confidence. [alt_text](%2F%2Fwww.almonds.com%2Fwhy-almonds%2Fhealth-and-nutrition%2Fbeauty-benefits%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/ytw-7bBEcdWiAwjFg2W9Q3Ao6dw=270) May. 16 2022 [Bustle logo](%2F%2Fbustle.com%2F%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/ElLa7UzFxEXYJiFxgcUixXAq_Ng=270) [alt_text](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fask-a-sex-therapist-is-my-sex-fantasy-normal%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/YvzMBwENWTNLVOMqE68ICFC-QmA=270) [Is My Sex Fantasy Normal?](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fask-a-sex-therapist-is-my-sex-fantasy-normal%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/R13-bMJ9FUyOhqzy6krP6JObXHI=270) “Whatever you can imagine, someone else has imagined it before you,” says Cyndi Darnell, a New York-based sex therapist, and also [Rule 34](%2F%2Fen.wikipedia.org%2Fwiki%2FRule_34%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/t5mVBMp_pd1w24Qx4vIWrkgwfQQ=270). So the short answer is: Yes, yes, yes, and yes, your fantasy is normal. Darnell also says we shouldn’t read too much into them, either. “Sometimes people like to analyze fantasies in the same way we might analyze our sleep dreams. If people say, ‘Gosh I fantasize about going to Paris,’ nobody ever says, ‘That’s because you were abused as a child.’ No, you just want to go to Paris,” she adds. “But we’ve decided that sex fantasies are these extra risky things. And there’s frankly no difference between imagining having an orgy and having lunch in Paris. It doesn’t mean anything other than the meaning you place on it.” [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fask-a-sex-therapist-is-my-sex-fantasy-normal%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/oKG2FpYsByM59GWeqUR9k3yrj_o=270) The Latest DATING [This TikToker Has Genius Advice For Boosting Your Dating Confidence](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fdating-confidence-drew-afualo-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/4kfDZqX9bQj0eQFVoXgbt6YPyb4=270) And it’s not having a glass of wine while you get ready, although in my experience, that works in a pinch. Thanks to her [hilarious takedowns](%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F@drewafualo%2Fvideo%2F7067728187744079151%3Fis_from_webapp=1%26sender_device=pc%26web_id=7041937579985651205%26utm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/IPcnrz8O4X_NckpFhCZExYUiwqk=270) of misogynistic videos on the platform, [Drew Afualo](%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F@drewafualo%3Flang=en%26utm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/q0DuvFjVGrxUJnm9jrD5_0v5l_U=270), a 26-year-old from California, has quickly amassed over 7 million followers and is getting ready to launch a new podcast, too. She chatted with Bustle about her best tips for building self-confidence, dealing with body image issues, and her fave pre-date pump-up songs. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fdating-confidence-drew-afualo-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/RZJAJ7s_0K8D8BSu2axRrY5HolU=270) CELEBRITIES [Kourtney And Travis Are ~Officially~ Married](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fkourtney-kardashian-travis-barker-officially-married-california%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/nKkLtavcjNeS556PIOmyGRoOVuk=270) The couple was spotted outside of a Santa Barbara courthouse over the weekend and are believed to be legally married now, which they needed to do ahead of their [big celebration happening in Italy](%2F%2Fpeople.com%2Ftv%2Fkourtney-kardashian-travis-barker-legally-married%2F%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/U73dJ6VRkT-UX19KyCvRuYG-Ink=270) “very soon.” Congrats to the happy couple, can’t wait to see what I’m sure will be very [PDA-heavy](%2F%2Fwww.glamour.com%2Fstory%2Ftravis-barker-kourtney-kardashian-pda-comment%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/ynHtg6MbV7mR49YWLXmRrj9QZCs=270) pics. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fkourtney-kardashian-travis-barker-officially-married-california%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/ZZ2H0xjuNy9jcUggvhKUt_hJmjk=270) TIKTOK [This Recipe Is #PastaTok’s Latest Obsession](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Ftiktok-pasta-recipes%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/ps3b0zd2SM31gZzYCKDsG1sQyak=270) There was the [baked feta pasta](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Fbaked-feta-pasta-recipe-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/4X6907Ke4zDe_J9StEqqeDjmUgk=270) craze of 2021 and the [goat cheese rendition](%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F@feelgoodfoodie%2Fvideo%2F6924127493033184518%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/qFHZRI0Pb0qSM3a_YJ2sKnVZLDU=270) that came afterward, but this grown-up take on one of your childhood faves is the platform’s noodle recipe du jour. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Ftiktok-pasta-recipes%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/hBOSH8M6rjvti7cci9iW0wVUolU=270) Must Reads %2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fthis-skin-boosting-food-is-the-simplest-way-to-get-your-glow-on%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/qgsGYbYU0h5Y8VbNfYZOXhx0Lik=270 Presented by Almond Board of California [Supercharge Your Skin's Summer Glow With Almonds](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fthis-skin-boosting-food-is-the-simplest-way-to-get-your-glow-on%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/fq3-bvJJ1MtuDX9RVFhyElf1bXI=270) With beach days and summer Fridays right around the corner, now’s the time to fine-tune your low-maintenance skincare regimen. Enter: Almonds. Their seven essential vitamins and nutrients make them an easy addition to any routine, and with promising studies suggesting their nutrient package may help fight wrinkles and harmful UVB light, they're the best choice to help support skin health from the inside out. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fthis-skin-boosting-food-is-the-simplest-way-to-get-your-glow-on%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/K1ltUTT_X21IwhJczpkU8zuJRh8=270) %2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Fbralette-outfits%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/Wm5MUlUS8bNWCXWjw_UVirmLCOA=270 STYLE [14 Spicy Bralette Outfits For Vaxxed Girl Summer, Round 2](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Fbralette-outfits%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/hDzmK4XfjAwiJJbpQYOPJzr_mf4=270) [Thongs](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Fbella-hadid-thong-leather-pants-outfit%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/XuYx8h5FhoZ6_gAIED85qzRnMp0=270) have become accessories, [underboob bikinis](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Funderboob-bikinis%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/HAMu5AKcMNozszkgzH-gede8Qj4=270) are trending, and there’s a [bustier dress](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Fbella-hadid-met-gala-2022-bustier-dress%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/hVs-m4_aJqE16olvZooTRsJbQMw=270) on virtually every red carpet. It’s safe to say that underwear is now, officially, outerwear. Now, just in time for the real Hot Vaxxed Summer (I think we can all agree, last year [didn’t really count](%2F%2Fwww.refinery29.com%2Fen-us%2F2021%2F08%2F10640797%2Fhot-girl-summer-submissive-and-breedable%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/_NGEMOO5XnosPgC59IK9GWA3M7A=270)), bras are getting the same treatment. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Fbralette-outfits%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/IlC1b7-uecpboRCsRWfsSQHmecA=270) %2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fvanessa-bayer-snl-characters-teenage-cancer-i-love-that-for-you-show-interview%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/eCTGw-dH2Flc3iGcjEOJjQmwLJA=270 INTERVIEW [At 14, Vanessa Bayer Was Bad At Sports & Lusting Over Jared Leto](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fvanessa-bayer-snl-characters-teenage-cancer-i-love-that-for-you-show-interview%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/KV0OgdBLCasg2y7rnDXPIv303vs=270) Like most of us, the Emmy-nominated SNL star was religiously watching My So-Called Life, Melrose Place, and Saved by the Bell. Unlike most of us, however, Bayer was handed a leukemia diagnosis at 15, which she battled through high school. Her new Showtime series, I Love That for You, is loosely based on her experience as a young cancer patient who uses own humor as a coping mechanism. She sat down with Bustle to talk about the show, her adolescent obsession with QVC, and her unabashed love of attention. 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[Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Fdaily-horoscope-for-may-16-2022%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/iA-ySac87F7dxJRPvPPSbY17aoI=270) What else we're reading: - [arrow icon] [How To Catch A Gaslighter In The Act](%2F%2Fmelmagazine.com%2Fen-us%2Fstory%2Fhow-to-respond-to-gaslighting%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/fLvFLlAWC3gp5HbUzjwzJuGph7g=270) - [arrow icon] [Kourtney Kardashian’s Courthouse Wedding Dress Will Be A Hit With All Brides](%2F%2Fwww.thezoereport.com%2Fculture%2Fkourtney-kardashian-wedding-dress-courthouse%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/cMKZ1J0k9E8FtLQLzTmqrtnHBDY=270) - [arrow icon] [An Elegy For The iPod](%2F%2Fwww.gawker.com%2Ftech%2Felegy-for-the-ipod%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/7VPJY0LVFVeBzHA0TzXQlFUW3q4=270) [alt_text](%2F%2Fwww.almonds.com%2Fwhy-almonds%2Fhealth-and-nutrition%2Fbeauty-benefits%3Futm_campaign=29222%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/01000180cf30cb82-8679b5ea-65b2-4fe9-a425-2f266bc3625b-000000/mNUvszuxHswkyP5QAzmSlcLfrmg=270) You're receiving this email because you signed up to receive communications from BDG Media. 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