Plus, why Lorde is having a moment on TikTok. [alt_text](%2F%2Fad.doubleclick.net%2Fddm%2Ftrackclk%2FN9515.1913248BDGMEDIAINC1%2FB26040288.319886892;dc_trk_aid=512635414;dc_trk_cid=152723648;dc_lat=;dc_rdid=;tag_for_child_directed_treatment=;tfua=;ltd=%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/SbZTOZ7JauvDqeaf5CVOUJub9Gw=245) Nov. 18 2021 [Bustle logo](%2F%2Fbustle.com%2F%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/QAzm2KbxWTp19YVTDbjFlpdc0b4=245) [alt_text](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2F2014-tumblr-aesthetic-tiktok-nostalgia-lorde%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/O6Y27pgOxrr6ZSNPmE16cU5qRfo=245) [The Feminine Urge To Listen To Lorde](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2F2014-tumblr-aesthetic-tiktok-nostalgia-lorde%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/Wu4by3FHUolc8OuAdNxlXX8aLMQ=245) Itâs true that what goes around comes back around, but these days, the interval between trends is getting shorter and shorter. Mere months ago, [Y2K fashion](%2F%2Fwww.vox.com%2Fthe-goods%2F22638568%2Fold-money-aesthetic-dark-academia-prep-tiktok-pinterest-instagram%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/vXANolpLvpsKHlO5GOS5RxKsDnU=245) was all the rage on TikTok, as the youngs romanticized the preppy polos and tennis skirts that were popular at the time (think Abercrombie before it was made [cool again](%2F%2Fwww.teenvogue.com%2Fstory%2Fabercrombie-and-fitch-is-making-its-comeback-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/FhzY6lgq0V57noETdeTJysC8fkg=245)). But right now, itâs all about the 2010s â specifically the [#2014Tumblr aesthetic](%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2Ftag%2F2014tumblr%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/2QrcJsF7dz3rtpNBee5NXM4ppxA=245), or in other words, whatever you remember from shopping at Urban Outfitters. Is it somewhat odd to be nostalgic for a time so close to our recent past? Yes. Will we happily take any excuse to listen to Lordeâs Melodrama and [fully regress to our 2012 feelings](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Ftaylor-swift-all-too-well-red-making-everyone-text-their-ex%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/vms9cNTuUj0uQirphjrdUXQgpG8=245) while we cry to Red (Taylorâs Version)? Also yes. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2F2014-tumblr-aesthetic-tiktok-nostalgia-lorde%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/SHoGjSokGhSBxGkL1HqZ3YJY5C4=245) The Latest TV [The Bachelor Drama Going Down In The Comments Section](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fhannah-ann-sluss-tiktok-about-peter-weber-hannah-brown-hooking-up%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/8Gk6p1zLOVrQdrH9OrKY4u7C9q0=245) *ABC announcer voice* This is the most dramatic TikTok in Bachelor history. Former Bachelorette Hannah Brown [wrote a memoir](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fwho-is-hannah-brown-dating-boyfriend%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/6zR13u9EKcL7F9_Wo6DDa796VlA=245), in which she reveals that she and Bachelor Peter Weber [ended up in bed together](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fhannah-brown-peter-weber-hook-up-after-bachelor-season%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/k7_FQ1X-EdbRZ6taVRxDp56KPQ4=245) after mutually attending the engagement party for Hannah Goodwin and Dylan Barbour. The problem is, at the time, Weberâs season hadnât finished airing yet, and he and Hannah Ann Sluss (yes, thatâs three Hannahs involved now) were âhaving problems.â Sluss took to TikTok to throw some shade, and fans are living for it in the comments. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fhannah-ann-sluss-tiktok-about-peter-weber-hannah-brown-hooking-up%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/lWgiWXzNa6S6tf_9d1tAIIjX6Qc=245) SHOPPING [The Black Friday Sales Are Here Already](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Fwalmarts-pre-black-friday-sale-is-on-here-are-all-the-cool-things-worth-buying-19373746%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/fe8yEbXnrVZ0NxRYH4xFreoRJsc=245) Weâre still a week out from turkey hangovers, but at Walmart, the [Black Friday deals](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fblack-friday%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/dOzTSX0svQG_xMpm2a-uLE63ztU=245) are already in full swing. From Ring Light kits to home theater projectors to iced coffee makers for all my fellow cold-brew-year-round stans, thereâs something for everyone. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Fwalmarts-pre-black-friday-sale-is-on-here-are-all-the-cool-things-worth-buying-19373746%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/njFIF26KAK7GcXtM_KtMVviPOGo=245) CELEBRITIES [Camila Cabello & Shawn Mendes Part Ways](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fcamila-cabello-shawn-mendes-have-split%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/V_p6WZXatbQ9KI6Yiuko3MPUmNU=245) After two years of dating, the âSeñoritaâ singers announced in matching IG stories that theyâve decided to end their relationship. [Fauxmance or not](%2F%2Fwww.theguardian.com%2Fmusic%2F2019%2Fsep%2F13%2Fcamila-cabello-shawn-mendes-romance-real-j-lo-drake%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/q69P-fMUYiR9l_kKivfKU6j8u2Y=245), weâll miss their [paparazzi strolls](%2F%2Fwww.seventeen.com%2Fcelebrity%2Fcelebrity-couples%2Fa34251063%2Fshawn-mendes-addressed-his-slow-walks-with-camila-cabello-in-march%2F%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/iAAPCkgMQIFimkIslcqXe5gaL74=245). 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And while sheâs very structured when it comes to her movement and wellness routine, sheâs just as intentional with her time off. âSometimes we hand our weekends over to other people when we actually [want to just be at home](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fbelievable-excuses-for-when-you-agreed-to-plans-but-you-really-just-want-to-stay-home-read-70815%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/H3LHuTNo_jZ2eewoyRe0CcAtcRM=245),â Erivo tells Bustle. So true bestie. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fcynthia-erivo-wellness-routine-run-facial-water%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/s4xY422L5OmzT5Kgc54oDodGWzM=245) %2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fkelsea-ballerini-songs-poetry-idolizing-taylor-swift-kelly-clarkson-quotes%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/SBa6P8yHxRVq4VqXrS8MMmHJT1M=245 MIXTAPE [Kelsea Ballerini Loves âSad Sh*tâ & Hates Love Songs](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fkelsea-ballerini-songs-poetry-idolizing-taylor-swift-kelly-clarkson-quotes%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/ZlOU_RRmt27_Ac-P_s2LMoY-CLc=245) In her new book of poems, the country singer gets even more candid than she does in her music. âWhat a freeing thing to do to [release] things that Iâve kept close to the chest because I thought being a role model meant being glittery all the time,â Ballerini tells Bustle. Here, she talks about her disastrous almost-first kiss that resulted in hot wax burns and fangirling over Kelly Clarkson. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fkelsea-ballerini-songs-poetry-idolizing-taylor-swift-kelly-clarkson-quotes%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/3/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/bORJwc8N9XhQHakSXcHA2UwQ4A8=245) Astrology %2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Fdaily-horoscope-for-november-18-2021%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/1/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/ELvNp0AgyjGBjKYSEw7kv9oKGWo=245 ASTROLOGY [Hereâs Your Daily Horoscope](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Flife%2Fdaily-horoscope-for-november-18-2021%3Futm_campaign=15315%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=d742a11b-2f24-42a9-beac-3c81e347d43a/2/0100017d35c2324d-9f9375f3-a726-4932-8930-4886fe95df23-000000/uNes42HKOdIN7OQQM53m2z8S1H8=245) Seek out grounding activities to deal with pre-eclipse energy. 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