Camila Cabello's Not Changing For Anyone

She reveals what makes it work with Shawn Mendes, and so much more. Aug. 20 2021 [Bustle logo](%2F%2Fbustle.com%2F%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/-XTa1daYhIpQHA35cwuC1Yei9BA=232) [alt_text](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fcamila-cabello-cinderella-familia-shawn-mendes-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/_gD9NkxrGidhfSWSV8ZumiGy35w=232) [Camila Cabello on Cinderella, Shawn Mendes, and Tuning Out the Haters](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fcamila-cabello-cinderella-familia-shawn-mendes-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/2/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/1ehbpilgCm4gQUDhmVOuixFKqpM=232) Welcome to the Bustle newsletter! 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Today, half of my heart is still in this profile of the 24-year-old “Havana” singer, which also happens to be the cover of Bustle’s August issue. Come for the adorable commentary from Cabello’s mom who accompanied her to the photoshoot (she made sure none of the pics showed too much chichi, as moms do), and stay for the DL on her relationship with Shawn (the infamous coffee mugs from their paparazzi walks are [real](%2F%2Fwww.seventeen.com%2Fcelebrity%2Fcelebrity-couples%2Fa31944801%2Ftwitter-is-roasting-shawn-mendes-and-camila-cabello-after-they-were-spotted-on-a-walk-together%2F%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/wzbWi5LB0HaneQQAmVIHKT_vPT4=232), in case you’re still wondering.) She also opens up about the difficulty of maintaining friendships with her work schedule and [feeling good in her skin again](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fcamilla-cabellos-body-positive-tiktok%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/y54URBbPO2PYpQZrW9e7RJunDc0=232) after a nasty round of body shaming earlier this summer. And if Cabello’s outfits have you feeling ready to really start dressin’ for fall, you’re in luck because we have your guide to the season’s biggest (and most controversial) [denim trends](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fstyle%2Ffall-2021-denim-trends-90s-2000s%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/4kgx8DM1TARkC59Nx_CcWKzi-PM=232) right here. 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But [now](%2F%2Fwww.etonline.com%2Falex-rodriguez-says-hes-in-a-great-place-as-he-looks-forward-to-helping-young-entrepreneurs-170577%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/08_rX_smyjMfg28FiKXt_h4KMf4=232) he’s officially reached his “thank u, next” phase, feeling “grateful for the last five years” and thankful for how much he learned. Meanwhile, Jen’s been giving us perfectly calibrated [secret boyfriend energy](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fsecret-boyfriend-energy%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/kjQ8DNGuol-CPcnMxDoH4tN2Sw4=232) for months. 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OnlyFans, unlike its [competitor JustForFans](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fonlyfans-justforfans-differences-explainer%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/8OcEF40CuAkbwte7dbNSguCvdjI=232), never acknowledged or catered to the sex workers on the platform, which always made it somewhat [ethically](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fonlyfans-ethical-porn-experts%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/Mj2QayziOkAicfMqaFvcsv5Z0gI=232) dubious. Nudes will still be fair game, just not porn. [Read More](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fwellness%2Fonlyfans-banning-porn%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/2/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/EjDJcjq6HcJ57Epcc-98z6yt6ng=232) Must Reads %2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Ftranquillum-based-on-a-real-resort-nine-perfect-strangers%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/2D98k9QTfrQ6_ohzKh9Iti67F4w=232 TV [The wellness resort horror stories that likely inspired 'Nine Perfect Strangers'](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Ftranquillum-based-on-a-real-resort-nine-perfect-strangers%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/2/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/RyMBaubQGWQRmSoWzQwHePrp-jI=232) Nicole Kidman’s back on our small screens with her new Hulu show Nine Perfect Strangers, which promises to be a rather scathing look at the billion dollar wellness tourism industry. While Tranquilium, the resort where the show takes place, isn’t real, [you can visit it](%2F%2Fwww.bustle.com%2Fentertainment%2Fwhere-was-nine-perfect-strangers-filmed-locations%3Futm_campaign=8187%26utm_medium=bustle%26utm_source=newsletter%26utm_session=dd8f2fbc-2678-4896-8220-cb1800f74c7f/1/0100017b65ec3e5a-6d0c55c8-4442-4c85-b7b6-0529bdcd6322-000000/FR6yPkhLcZK-K7KJX7EZRmCZAOo=232). It’s adapted from a novel but likely drew inspo from real-life instances of sweat lodge ceremonies and ozone therapy gone wrong. 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Now that the Twilight saga is available on Netflix, we invite you to dust off your emo side and take a trip down vampire memory lane. 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