Annual Edition: The Best of Brain Pickings / The Marginalian 2021

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[Of Trees, Solitude, Love, Loss, and the Stubborn Symphony of Aliveness: The Best of Brain Pickings / The Marginalian 2021]( It is an annual ritual to glance over time’s shoulder [each year]( and reflect on what has made it most livable and worthy of living through my writing — always the clearest mirror of what irradiated and perturbed my heart and mind as our uncommon planet made its steady revolution around its common star. Inevitably, patterns emerge that were not obvious in the moment-by-moment experience. Inevitably, those patterns reveal that however tumultuous the seasons of being might feel — and what a tempest of uncertainty and disorientation 2021 has been for all of us in the world, what a tempest of [loss sudden as frostbite]( and [slow-blooming rebirth]( for my personal world — the things that make life most luminous with aliveness are variations on eternal themes, impervious to our passing perturbations. Here are the best of these eternal echoes — as usual, a composite best: a hybrid of the pieces I poured the most heart into writing and the pieces most widely read and shared by those whose hearts they touched. Thank you for reading. Thank you for caring. * * * [Rilke on the Relationship Between Solitude, Love, Sex, and Creativity]( Read it [here](. * * * [Becoming the Marginalian: After 15 Years, Brain Pickings Reborn]( Read it [here](. * * * [James {NAME} on Love, the Illusion of Choice, and the Paradox of Freedom]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Snail with the Right Heart: A True Story of Science and Love]( Read it [here](. * * * [Music, the Neural Harmonics of Emotion, and How Love Restrings the Brain]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Antidote to the Irreversibility of Life: Hannah Arendt on What Forgiveness Really Means]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Ocean and the Meaning of Life]( Read it [here](. * * * [Richard Dawkins on the Luckiness of Death]( Read it [here](. * * * [Probable Impossibilities: Physicist Alan Lightman on Beginnings, Endings, and What Makes Life Worth Living]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Pattern Inside the Pattern: Fractals, the Hidden Order Beneath Chaos, and the Story of the Refugee Who Revolutionized the Mathematics of Reality]( Read it [here](. * * * [Shifting the Silence to Find the Meaning: 95-Year-Old Artist, Poet, and Philosopher Etel Adnan on How to Live and How to Die]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Blue Hour: A Stunning Illustrated Celebration of Nature’s Rarest Color]( Read it [here](. * * * [Wintering: Resilience, the Wisdom of Sadness, and How the Science of Trees Illuminates the Art of Self-Renewal Through Difficult Times]( Read it [here](. * * * [Love, Loss, and the Banality of Survival: Charles Darwin, His Beloved Daughter, and How We Find Meaning in Mortality]( Read it [here](. * * * [Of Trees, Tenderness, and the Moon: Hasui Kawase’s Stunning Japanese Woodblock Prints from the 1920s-1950s]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Stoic Antidote to Frustration: Marcus Aurelius on How to Keep Your Mental Composure and Emotional Equanimity When People Let You Down]( Read it [here](. * * * [Growing Through Grief: Derek Jarman on Gardening as Creative Redemption, Consecration of Time, and Training Ground for Presence]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Truelove: Poet and Philosopher David Whyte on Reaching Beyond Our Limiting Beliefs About What We Deserve]( Read it [here](. * * * [Trees, Whales, and Our Digital Future: George Dyson on Nature, Human Nature, and the Relationship Between Our Minds and Our Machines]( Read it [here](. * * * [Music and the Mystery of Aliveness]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Blue Horses of Our Destiny: Artist Franz Marc, the Wisdom of Animals, and the Fight of Beauty Against Brutality]( Read it [here](. * * * [Thich Nhat Hanh on the Art of Deep Listening and the 3 Buddhist Steps to Repairing a Relationship]( Read it [here](. * * * [Orwell’s Roses: Rebecca Solnit on How Nature Sustains Us, Beauty as Fuel for Change, and the Value of the Meaningless Things That Give Our Lives Meaning]( Read it [here](. * * * [When Your Parents Are Dying: Some of the Simplest, Most Difficult and Redemptive Life-Advice You’ll Ever Receive]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Art of Solitude: Buddhist Scholar and Teacher Stephen Batchelor on Contemplative Practice and Creativity]( Read it [here](. * * * [The Good Luck of Your Bad Luck: Marcus Aurelius on the Stoic Strategy for Weathering Life’s Waves and Turning Suffering into Strength]( Read it [here](. 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