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One question guys ask me all the time is what they should talk about with women. Obviously every woman is different and each will have their own things that interest them… But there is one topic that’s universally interesting to every person alive? Know what it is? It’s THEMSELVES. You can’t bore someone if you keep the focus of the conversation on them… Instead of rambling on about yourself and what you think is interesting. And if you’ve ever read or studied any dating or pick-up advice, chances are you’re guilty of this… Because there’s a myth that you constantly need to be telling stories, making her laugh, spiking her emotions… Or all sorts of other tactics that supposedly ‘raise your value’. But if you actually ask women what they wish guys would do more in conversation, the answer is pretty simple: LISTEN. Groundbreaking, right? Yet as simple as this sounds, most men completely screw it up. They talk AT a woman, rather than WITH her… which makes it impossible for her to truly feel connected to a man. Now, at the other end of the spectrum you have the guys who don’t talk ENOUGH about themselves… and this isn’t good either. If all you do is talk about her and never share anything about yourself, it can make you look unconfident or like you’re hiding something. That’s why you want to follow the ‘Golden Ratio’ of conversation: 70% should be focused on her, 30% on yourself. Note: this is a great guideline to stick to, not a hard and fast rule that needs to be measured to the exact second... But what you’ll find when you apply this ratio, is women will start calling you a “great conversationalist” and comment on how interesting you are. Even though you’re probably saying less than what you’re used to, in a woman’s eyes, you’re seen as more interesting and attractive. So, what’s the best way to go about this? It depends on the type of girl you’re with. If she’s naturally more talkative, let her share stuff about herself. From time to time chip in with your own thoughts as they relate to the topic at hand. And if she’s asking a lot of questions about you, answer them in a way where you can then steer the focus back to her. That means don’t use it as an excuse to go off on a tangent and talk about yourself for the next half hour. In some cases, you may be talking to a girl who’s quite shy, and the burden of the conversation will fall more on you. If you keep asking her a bunch of questions, it’ll likely make her feel pressured and she can become closed off. What’s better to do instead is share something about yourself first – such as your opinion on something, or a short story or anecdote – then ask her a question related to that. By you ‘going first’, it creates a safer space for her to feel comfortable contributing to the conversation. This might take a little bit of practice at first, but once you get the hang of it then it becomes effortless… and women definitely notice. In fact, when a bunch of women were asked what they found attractive in [older men they’ve dated…]( One of the top reasons was that the guy listened to them more than younger men. And when she feels heard, understood, and appreciated… she’s much more likely to become sexually aroused. My buddy Bill Grant follows this 70/30 rule of conversation and reaps all the sexual rewards. I used to think he’d sold his soul to the devil to be able to sleep with so many younger women (he’s almost 60)... But it turns out he just has a few simple techniques and tactics that make him irresistible to the type of woman who’s open to being with a much older man. If you want to discover his secrets for yourself, you need to [go check out this video]( right this second. If you have no desire to continue receiving these emails, please [unsubscribe](. Sent by BestXDate, located at 1722 Maple St, Quincy, IL, 62301. [ ](