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Advice to guy entrepreneurs looking for a dating coach
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Many moons ago back in my old elBenbo’s Lair Facebook group, I let one of my customers Holly Mt
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Many moons ago back in my old elBenboâs Lair Facebook group, I let one of my customers Holly Mthethwa write a weekly column for women entrepreneurs up in there, that would help make them more attractive to the kind of high value guys they were seeking as boyfriends or husbands. Holly did not teach the typical âbadass boss ladyâ drivel. She went the exact opposite way. And everyone praised her publicly when she posted a new article. But I also saw the screen shots from my spy network in there of private DMs where those same people praising her to the moon publicly were stabbing her in the back and mocking her privately. In other words: She was magnificent and her info was 100% solid. You simply donât get that kind of reaction unless youâre doing something right in your content and are speaking the truth. So her columns did exactly as Iâd hoped they would, and could not possibly have worked out better. So much so, after my Social Lair book launched last year â where I mentioned Holly and her role up in elBenboâs Lair â she sent me this email: === I got a message from a man who found me through your Social Lair book (thank you for the plug!). Seems he wants to know how to FIND a happy wife. I have a feeling he might not be the last. . .do you know a dating coach for men within your circle/similar approach that I could recommend? === My answer: âjust tell them to lift heavy weights, pursue their passions, and talk to girls they find interesting. Literally an entire coaching program in a sentence.â Of course, most guys needing this kind of advice will balk at that. âToo simpleâ So for a longer answer, I refer them to my Villains books. Start with the first one: âPersuasion Secrets of the Worldâs Most Charismatic & Influential Villainsâ Then, proceed to the second volume: âSupervillains of Persuasionâ And after that, finish up the trilogy with: âVillainous Weapons of Persuasionâ Very important to read them in order. They are also each very short, too â where itâs not unrealistic to finish each book in one, maybe two sittings. They arenât meant to be long, boring tomes full of fluff and endless anecdotes that just rehash the same points over and over and over. A point the handful of lollipops who gave the books bad reviews whining about the length clearly didnât grasp. Those types are just reply guys though. And nobody cares what they think anyway. As for the link, here you be: [httpsâ¶//www.EmailPlayers.com/villains]( Ben Settle This email was sent by Ben Settle as owner of Settle, LLC. Copyright © 2022 Settle, LLC. All Rights Reserved. No part of this email may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means without written permission from Settle, LLC. Click here to
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