Newsletter Subject
Why “nice” guys are creepy
From
bensettle.com
Email Address
ben@bensettle.com
Sent On
Mon, May 6, 2024 10:45 PM
Email Preheader Text
A few months ago I was asked: “In one of the things you wrote you said that you were kind but n
HTML
A few months ago I was asked: âIn one of the things you wrote (I forget where) you said that you were kind but not nice. Iâve been trying to figure out what the difference is, but they seem synonymous. Whatâs the difference?â I have said before and I will now say it again: âNiceâ is often very harmful. Itâs disingenuous at best. And I would say itâs even outright a cover for engaging in great evil at worst. Even God, in the entire Bible, is never once described as ânice.â Nice often forces you to lie. Nice means often concealing the truth. And nice often causes resentment and pain, with a lot of self-described ânice guysâ (look at handful of the men legitimately #metooâd â obviously not the bull shyt cases â and how many of them tried to pose as nice guys, etc) are often the most abusive â emotionally and physically â people there are. I neither trust nice guys nor do I do business with them. So why would I pose as one? Especially to customers under my personal care and attention? So thatâs my take on nice. Kind, on the other hand, is a different animal. You can be kind without being nice. And, in fact, I would argue those who go through my newest course âEmail Bastard!â will invariably realize that, no, nothing about what it teaches is nice⦠but it is ultimately kind. It is at the end of the day about serving the customer. And it is most definitely not about lying to the customer just to be nice, trying to appease the customerâs worst instincts just to be nice, or telling customers what they want to hear to spare their feelings at the expensive of improving their lives in whatever way your offers do so just to be nice. If that makes me a bit of an Email Bastard then so be it. As for the details? Iâm selling it quite inexpensively during the launch this week. But the deadline is Friday, May 10 at midnight EDT. If you want my approach for doing this then see Email Bastard! here: [httpsâ¶//www.EmailPlayers.com/bastard]( Ben Settle P.S. This course is made up of multiple talks Iâve done at various events people paid not a little bit of money to attend. And some of the info inside has been included in other offers Iâve sold over the years. So read the sales letter carefully before buying if you donât want to just end up buying the same information all over again. This email was sent by Ben Settle as owner of Settle, LLC. Copyright © 2024 Settle, LLC. All Rights Reserved. No part of this email may be reproduced or transmitted in any form or by any means without written permission from Settle, LLC. Click here to
[unsubscribe](
Settle, LLC
PO Box 1056
Gold Beach Oregon 97444
USA
EDM Keywords (79)
years
wrote
would
week
want
trying
truth
tried
transmitted
things
teaches
take
spare
sold
serving
sent
selling
say
said
reproduced
read
pose
part
pain
owner
one
often
offers
obviously
nothing
nice
never
money
many
makes
made
lying
lot
lives
launch
kind
information
included
improving
hear
harmful
handful
hand
go
form
forget
figure
feelings
fact
expensive
engaging
end
email
done
disingenuous
difference
details
described
definitely
deadline
day
customers
customer
creepy
cover
course
buying
business
bit
best
attention
attend
asked
approach
appease