Barking Up The Wrong Tree January 30th, 2023 ---------------------------------------------------------------
Before we commence with the festivities, I wanted to thank everyone for helping my new book become a bestseller! To check it out, click [here](. --------------------------------------------------------------- 6 Things The Most Productive People Do Every Day ([Click here]( to read on the blog) Sometimes âproductivityâ feels like a country youâve heard a lot about but never thought youâd get a chance to visit. Articles, Twitter threads and YouTube Vox Pops all claim to have answers â which never seem to hold up when subjected to real life. Itâs amazing youâre still sitting at a desk instead of shrieking on a ledge. Well, distractedness is nothing new. And we can get some answers from people who struggled valiantly with the issue a long time ago. On this blog weâve gotten insights on [resilience]( from Navy SEALs, [bargaining]( from hostage negotiators, [staying calm]( from bomb disposal experts and [living the good life]( from the ancient Epicureans. So who is going to teach us about productivity? Monks. If youâre used to getting most of your facts from memes, you might not know there were a lot of monks running around from Late Antiquity to the early Middle Ages, about 300-900 CE. They talked about getting focused a lot â not because they were good at it, but because it was huge problem for them. Abba Poemen, a leader at the monastic community of Scetis, said, âthe chief of all wickednesses is the wandering of the thoughts.â Monks would space out during prayer or even when officiating mass. (This might sound like a Monty Python skit waiting to happen but the Middle Ages werenât as different from modern times as you think â I hear they dealt with a pretty bad plague, too.) Believe it or not, monks were the productivity gurus of their era, always looking for a better way to focus and get things done. They saw themselves as athletes and warriors of the mind. And what did they find was the primary cause of mind wandering? Demons. Um, okay, maybe that answer has not stood the test of time but I think youâll agree on bad days it definitely feels accurate. Regardless of whether supernatural forces are behind you checking Instagram too much, the solutions the monks came up with can help us all be more focused and get things done. Jamie Kreiner is a professor of history at the University of Georgia. Her book is â[The Wandering Mind: What Medieval Monks Tell Us About Distraction]( These people really believed in miracles and they might just have a few for us. Letâs get to it... They Knew What They Did Was Important It only takes about five minutes of being at your desk before your brain goes into screensaver mode. A lot of what you have to do may feel pointless -- like the reverse of a religious revelation. If it wasnât for deadline-induced adrenaline, you wouldnât get anything done. But for monks, there were human souls at stake. That definitely ups the urgency a bit. When you feel like youâre saving the world, a long to-do list isnât as intimidating. Maybe your work isnât a battle to the death with the forces of evil but thereâs still a lesson here: take a second to think about why what youâre doing is important or meaningful. Who is helped? Whose life will be better because of the work youâre doing? Wharton professor Adam Grant did a [study]( where university call center employees saw the impact their efforts had on students. It caused their motivation to soar. Monks thought they were battling demons. Metaphorically, you can do the same. Next time work feels stale and lifeless, remember that there are people depending on you. Simple tasks take on new life when you tell yourself: MUST. BATTLE. DEMONS! Now the next step here does not involve you going to live hermit-style on a mountaintop. But we can learn a lot about focus and dealing with others from the monks... Monastic Isolation? Um, Kinda Yes, some monks lived as hermits to fight distraction â but most didnât. They realized that communal living had many benefits. They got support from others. They shared a sense of purpose. They could empathize with othersâ problems and trade new techniques for improvement. You can do this too. (Cells in a monastery arenât that different from cubicles in an office when you think about it.) Finding a supportive crew that shares your values and helps you get by can make a big difference. But most times in an office we feel like other people are just another distraction. And monks dealt with the same issue. How did they cope? Even within a monastery, monks knew a balance was necessary. Occasionally they needed time alone and this was a good thing. So book yourself a conference room and get away from the craziness to really crank and get stuff done. Work by [Stanford business professor Bob Sutton]( shows getting away from everyone can boost productivity and creativity. But most important was getting some mental distance from the workplace gossip scene. The monk Amma Syncletica said âthere are many who live in the mountains and behave as if they were in the town, and they are wasting their time. It is possible to be solitary in oneâs mind while living in a crowd, and it is possible for one who is a solitary to live in the crowd of his own thoughts.â When monks spoke of âescaping the worldâ they didnât necessarily mean being a hermit. To them âthe worldâ was a euphemism for the entanglements of everyday life. Not getting caught up in gossip, bickering, and debates over the latest news. Even they knew this overloaded our attention and took time away from what was important. Mentally step away from office and social media drama. Take the positives from being around others but donât let your brain get caught up by the negatives that will drain you. Now some of the biggest demons we face are in our own heads. How do we get medieval on those problems? Monks Had A Daily Routine Monks stuck to pretty rigid daily routines and fought to make sure nothing interfered with them. Pray. Study. Mass. Chores. No, they didnât always feel like obeying the routine but it brought consistency and sanity to what could easily go chaotic. (Doing stuff only when you feel like it works well if you get more pleasure out of cleaning up messes instead of avoiding them in the first place.) Find a routine. And defend that structure against all encroachment. When you get your system down, motivation becomes easier because itâs like a âManchurian Candidateâ switch has been flipped and you seamlessly obey. Autopilot is great â if youâre the one who designed the autopilot system. Now monks may have been warriors of the mind but they knew their bodies were important too. Angels may have been beings of pure consciousness but they were mortals and had to work with their bodies to achieve goals... Yes, that's a fancy way of saying they made sure to get some exercise. Exercise Itâs a bit disturbing how animated your digital devices can be while you barely move. I wouldnât be surprised if office desks start shipping with catheters. Many of the mental disturbances we deal with like distraction can be handled by calming the body. Abraham of Kashkar told his monks at Izla: âIf the body is not quiet, the mind cannot be quiet.â You can look at tons of different types of monks and philosophy schools and what you find is that they all felt the body affected the soul. Much like the mind, it needed conditioning or it would be weak. And so monks did physical labor to foster mental stability. Gotta be strong to fight those demons. And today we have plenty of [research]( showing that exercise makes your brain stronger and calms you. You donât need to do anything extreme thatâs going to cause Linda-Blair-level vomiting. Even taking long walks confers benefits. But one of the biggest sources of distraction we deal with these days is from modern technology, something monks didnât have to tangle with -- or so you might think. Turns out they have some lessons for us here as well... Technology Usage Medieval monks didnât struggle with internet distractions but they did spend a lot of time trying to control what ideas got into their heads. I doubt you come across a web page, scream âPagan heretics!â and close the tab, but thereâs still a lesson here. We can be choosier about what we read and what we give our attention to. And monks had their own issues with device usage. Lemme tell ya, the âscroll vs codex debateâ was a big one. How to consume information so it didnât lead the mind astray was something they thought a lot about. They wanted to make their modes of study cognitively compatible with their goals. Think about the format and mediums by which you take in information and customize it. Build new technological habits aligned with the results you want to achieve. I donât have social media or other distractions on my iPad. I turn off notifications. I use Firefox Focus so I cannot have more than one browser tab open at a time. And my iPad is where I do all my reading. My perfect digital codex. What will work best for you? And, finally, we enter the belly of the beast: that ever-distracted, ever-wandering mind of yours. Thatâs where the demons live. How do we banish them to the shadow realm forever? Mindfulness The voice in your head chatters like the two old guys in the balcony on The Muppets. A running commentary of your least productive thoughts and feelings. Monks didnât always practice meditation but numerous groups ended up arriving at some of the most fundamental tools of mindfulness. The primary one was what we now call âmeta-cognitionâ -- learning to notice and evaluate oneâs thoughts. Basil of Caesarea told those who supervised young monks to ask them what they were thinking aboutâand to do that often. The next step was âdiscernment.â Monks had to know if the thoughts in their mind came from themselves, from God, or from demons. And sometimes it was hard to tell the difference. This was the detective work of the mind. For us itâs less supernatural but still critical. Ask yourself, âIs this thought useful? Is it worth my time?â Evagrius of Pontus said that identifying demonic thoughts could disarm them. Well, give that guy an honorary degree in neuroscience because we now know that recognizing and [labeling your thoughts]( can help you dismiss them when theyâre not helpful. And some of their ancient methods actually worked better than ours. Mindfulness tells us not to judge our thoughts, to distance ourselves from them. But this can be really tricky. Monks, well, they knew that their bad thoughts came from demons, so it was a lot easier to banish them. "Thatâs not me; thatâs the demon talking." This helped them to not identify with the thoughts and to get some distance. Might sound like they were crazy but, ironically, itâs a lot easier to not lose your mind when you donât think itâs totally yours in the first place. Buddhist monks had â[Mara]( which was a personification of the forces antagonistic to enlightenment. And they had a fun, puckish relationship with Mara. To this day, when tempting, distracting thoughts enter the mind of practicing Buddhists, itâs not uncommon for them to respond them by saying, âI see you, Mara.â You ainât pulling one over on me. Iâm maintaining focus. Give your own metaphorical mental demon a name. Call it out when it tries to lead you astray. Might sound nuts but weâve got a few hundred years of proof â and plenty of neuroscience â to show this can help. Alright, acolyte, weâve covered a lot. Letâs round it up -- and weâll also learn what monks can teach us about dealing with the most horrible of demons: Procrastination... Sum Up This is how to be more productive, courtesy of medieval monks:
- They Knew What They Did Was Important: If you thought you were a holy warrior heading toward some End of Days battle, youâd be more motivated. So remind yourself of why what you do is important and who it helps.
- Monastic Isolation? Um, Kinda: Have a group at work with the same goals and values you do. They can support you emotionally and offer help. And donât be afraid to go hermit in a conference room when you need to get stuff done. Most importantly, get mental distance from the drama of the workplace and the internet.
- Monks Had A Daily Routine: Every time somebody rang a bell, Pavlov probably thought âGotta feed the dogs!â Build habits. Make things automatic and itâs a lot easier to stay on task.
- Exercise: We struggle for organization but, sedentary at your desk, you end up in lobotomization. Train the body to train the mind.
- Technology Usage: Scroll or codex? You think youâre using tech but tech ends up using you. Find the best ways to leverage digital devices to reach your goals.
- Mindfulness: The thoughts multiply like Gremlins. So treat them like Gremlins. Theyâre not you. Notice them, label them, and tell them, âI see you, Mara.â Theyâll vanish back to the spirit world and you can focus.
Monks read a lot, always attempting to shape their minds for the better. They felt if they read the right kind of books, it became part of their heart. Who they were. They would say, âIn corde et in ore.â The book becomes iron. But from their reading, they knew that even the saints they looked up to struggled. It was natural. And so what did they do when they strayed from the mental path? They forgave themselves. Sounds very religious but itâs also scientific. Once again, these folks stumbled on something that works. And thatâs what studies have shown when it comes to procrastination: [forgive yourself](. When students forgive themselves for procrastination, theyâre better able to study, to learn and to perform better on exams. To be productive you donât have to be some lab-designed superhuman grown in a vat. In fact, you donât even have to be a monk. Itâs less about living in a monastery and more about managing your mind. As one seventh century monk said, it was the âtroposâ that made a monk, not the âtopos.â In other words, itâs not where you live; itâs how you live. These tips can help us all be more productive, monastery or no monastery. But stay vigilant... There are demons out there. ***If you are one of those lovely people who bought "Plays Well With Others" please leave a review on Amazon [here](. Thanks!*** Email Extras Findings from around the internet... + Want to know how to be happier in 2023? Click [here](. + Want to know the easy way to relieve guilt? Click [here](. + Want to know the ten reasons why communication breaks down? Click [here](. + Miss my prior post? Here you go: [This Is The Most Fun Way To Make Your Life Awesome](. + Want to know an easy way to relieve depression and anxiety? Click [here](. + You read to the end of the email. Your monk-like focus has improved, and you didn't even need to shave your head. And I thank you. Alrighty, it's Crackerjack time: semi-related to monks -- want to know how to survive solitary confinement in prison? (There are actually some good productivity and happiness tips in here if you squint.) Click [here](.
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