The “M-B” Method To Transforming Your Beliefs

The "M-B Method" I used to TRANSFORM the self-belief of a 17 year old Australian client of mine.  See, one of the best ways to transform your self-belief...  Is to take your mind and body (M-B) back to the first time you took on the belief.  And for the Australian, the first time that he had ever felt that he wasn't “good enough”...  Was the day when his boss said something to him that changed his life for years.  He had looked up to his boss and he dreamed of running a business like he did.  But one day, his boss was really angry…  Went up to him and called him a “short little shit” all because he made a mistake.  He was really crushed.  If someone isn’t living the life you desire…  If someone who you don’t respect says something like that to you, it’s a whole lot easier not to care about their words.  But because the Australian had looked up to his boss…  His words stung him much deeper.  So in order to help him to transform his belief in himself…  Not just on a mental level, but on a physical and spiritual level too…  Here’s what I did.  I asked him, “did your boss say that you’re not good enough straight to your face?”  He said, “no. He just called me a short little shit”.  While it’s true that he was short, here’s what I asked him…  “Okay, but were you a little shit?”  “No. I made a mistake and I wasn’t intentionally doing it”.  “Okay cool, so does that mean you’re not good enough?”  “Well if I’m not good enough for him then yeah”  “Okay, but are you good enough for other things in life?”  At this point, I was BROADENING HIS HORIZONS!  Often, we allow our beliefs to restrict us.  So when you help someone broaden their horizons, it helps them to open up.   So then I told him to close his eyes and describe to me what “I’m not good enough” looks like.  Now, usually when I do this for clients, they would describe to me what happened when someone told them that they weren’t good enough.  And I told him, “no no. That's the event, what does ‘I’m not good’ enough really look like?”  Of course, he got frustrated after doing this multiple times.  Then I told him, “I want you to understand that the reason why you can’t describe what ‘I’m not good enough’ looks like is because it doesn’t look like anything”.  The truth is...the beliefs we have (positive or negative) were thoughts that flowed by (like a stream of water) but we decided to grab it and hold onto it.  In other words...WE CHOOSE OUR BELIEFS!  Whether you’re feeling like you’re not worthy enough to be a coach...  Or you think you’re too stupid to be a leader...  Or you think that you will fail at pursuing your dream (before you even begin)...  All these beliefs we have usually stem from what other people said to you (usually during childhood).  But here’s the thing we don’t realize.  People often DON’T MEAN what they say.  People go through different moods all the time.  If a parent is angry at their child and calls them stupid for example…  Oftentimes, they don’t actually mean what they said.  Their emotions had influenced them to say that.  But unfortunately, the child doesn’t know any better.  So the child ends up taking those words seriously.  And until the child challenges this belief (both in their mind and in their body)...  The child will grow into adulthood still carrying this thought of being stupid.  One of my A2S Academy students is currently in her 60s.  And it’s only now that she’s been a member of the Academy...  That she discovered that her belief of feeling like she is stupid has been holding her back from her God-Given Potential.  It’s only now that she’s starting to really challenge that belief.  And she’s carried that belief for DECADES (right from her childhood).  It’s crazy to think that grown adults can still carry with them, reactions that they had ever since they were a child.  If you were to take one lesson away from this email today, let it be this.  Beliefs are HABITS of THOUGHT!  When you challenge the belief and then you change the HABIT…  You can change the entire belief that’s sitting in your head.  In my upcoming Imposter Syndrome masterclass…  I’m going to show you how to really CHALLENGE your imposter syndrome that is stopping you from being a leader (and an online coach).  I sat in a restaurant yesterday by the sunset with good friends and of course my dog, Mika.  I’m so grateful for the freedom to be able to travel the world and live how I want to live.   Grateful to be able to enjoy the sunset view while having an IMPACTFUL multi million dollar coaching business…  That gets ‘Thank You’ messages regularly.  This is where I want you to be too.  But your imposter syndrome might be blocking you from that.  So that’s what we have to deal with first if we want to FLOW towards a successful coaching business.  Talk soon. Ciao . .  Joel "Unstoppable Self-Belief" Brown Founder �     ELEVATE YOUR MIND. AMPLIFY YOUR INFLUENCE. TRANSFORM YOUR LIFE. This email was sent to {EMAIL} by info@addicted2success.com 200 Adelaide st Brisbane Qld 4000 [1-Click Unsubscribe]( | [Edit Profile]( | [Manage Subscriptions]( | [Report Spam](