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Hey hey. It’s Joel here.  What if I told you that your toxic relationships were actually a GOOD THING?  I bet you didn’t expect me to say that, right?  Well, look at all the toxic relationships you’ve had in the past.  You’ve probably thought…  “This person is a biatch” “That person is an asshole” “This person is giving me hell”  In fact, I’m willing to bet that even to this day, you’re still thinking this way about past relationships.  Don’t worry, it’s nothing to be ashamed of.  It happens to all of us  I used to be this way myself.  Whenever I was in a relationship I didn’t like…  I’d think that there was something wrong with that person and that there was nothing wrong with me.  I saw myself as the VICTIM of bad relationships (whether in business or in my dating life).  But here’s a lesson you may never have considered before.  Every single one of your relationships are a DIRECT REFLECTION of YOU!  I’ll let that one sink in for a few seconds. Don’t worry, I’ll wait.  ---- ----  Are you still here with me? Ok cool. Let’s continue.  Here’s what I mean.  Years ago, I was cheated on by my ex-wife. And the funny thing is that, it wasn’t even her fault. I had ALLOWED her to cheat on me. Why? - Because I didn’t set boundaries within the relationship. Why didn’t I set boundaries? Because I was DESPERATE for affection. The affection that I felt my father didn’t give to me when I was growing up. In the first four years of my life, my father would leave the house all the time… And I CHOSE to take that as a sign that he didn’t love me. I became clingy and I went out, desperately looking for others to give me the love that I thought my father didn’t give to me. As a result, I attracted the bad girls into my life. Girls who took advantage of me. Which then led me to the day where I was cheated on by my ex-wife. Now, just a few years ago, I finally had the uncomfortable conversation with my father about my childhood. And it was scary because I had run away from this conversation for so long. But I knew deep in my heart, that I had to face this fear head on. And I’m so glad I did because I found out that the reason my father left the house was not because he didn’t love me. He left the house because he didn’t know how to handle my mother when she had her depressive episodes. And once I had this realization from the conversation we had... My desperation and clinginess just VANISHED… Like it was a ghost the whole time. No longer was I self-sabotaging in my relationships. I was no longer being clingy on my dates or even my business partnerships. Once I had healed the wound I’ve kept bottled up inside me for so long… I was able to grow into my HIGHER-POWER and attract thousands of powerful people into my life… Which not only exploded my income and opportunities… But it also made me happier than I’ve ever been. Bottomline: I was able to stop the self-sabotage of being clingy in my relationships… When I FINALLY HEALED the relationship with my father. See, what I’ve found is that the self-help industry in general only focuses on Growth, Growth, Growth. But for me, it didn’t matter how much I grew. If I hadn’t HEALED my relationship with my father… My growth as a person would’ve been held back (like it’s stuck to an anchor drowning to the bottom of the ocean). So unlike what the self-help industry says. It’s not about growth, growth, growth. It’s about healing, then growing, then healing, then growing. Which is why as an online coach or aspiring online coach… It’s important that you’re not just focused on growth. It’s just as CRUCIAL to focus on healing yourself… In order to really serve your clients at the highest level. So what is one way you can heal starting today? Maybe it’s a relationship that you know you need to forgive. Maybe you blamed yourself for a mistake you made in the past… And you need to forgive yourself for that. Whatever it is, I’d love to hear your replies. Because in the end, your growth is only pushed forward by how much healing you have done. Hope this email just gave you an aha moment. That’s all from me. Ciao :) . . . Joel Brown
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